Basketball Family

For a couple of months now I have jokingly said that my family is a “basketball family.”

My mom, dad, oldest brother and twin brother all played basketball at some point in their lives.

My sister and I have never played, yet I still call my family a “basketball family.”

I know how to shoot and dribble only from doing drills with Peter on the driveway for years on end. I was never very good. I can't do a lay-up and maybe I can do a foul shot, if I'm lucky.

The only thing I have going for me in basketball is that I am tall and very aggressive.

I have been told by many people that I should play because I am tall, but I have never been interested until now.

Last night I played in my first ever competitive basketball game!
I joined the Kappa Delta intermural girls v. girls basketball team the other day with my friend Erin!
We were down by 10 points last night when I subbed in for one of my teammates.
I was very nervous and it was a lot of pressure to win.

But after watching my brother play and my dad coach for YEARS, I felt like I knew what I was doing!
I kept my eyes on the ball, boxed out and put my hands up.

Don’t worry I even gave the girl I was blocking a shove or two.

I stayed in into the end of the game and we brought up the score nine points, so we were only losing by one.

At the end of the game we only lost by one, but it was very close.

I think we made up all the points due to my amazing blocking skills! *Toss toss

So I think I can say a little more confidently that I am from a basketball family because now I even play, sorry Tara!!

After all the fun I had on the court, I made my way over to my two meetings.

One was about Kappa Delta Public Relations!

I learned that I will be in charge of accumulating photos for the Wake Forest KD Instagram!

The other meeting was about a big heavier topic.

It was a meeting with all of the tour guides where we discussed how to answer questions on tours about the shooting and murder that happened on campus two weeks ago.

You can read my blog post about that HERE.

All we can say is that the investigation is ongoing.

So far two out of the three suspects have been arrested.

All the protocols are being looked into and investigated to continue to make our campus safe.

To continue on the tall theme, here is an outfit that is sure to make you look really tall and lean, even if you are not from a "basketball family" like mine and weren't blessed in the height department.

The long vest, over the knee boots and dark wash skinny jeans accentuates my height.

The oversized turtleneck pairs well with a tight pair of skinny jeans. And then the long-oversized fur vest adds to the oversized look on my top half, while the over the knee boots lengthens my body.

H&M oversized gray turtleneck

H&M long faux fur vest

American Eagle dark wash skinny jeans

DSW black over the knee boots

Ray Ban pink mirrored aviators

Rocksbox hoop earrings

No Coat, No Problem

Sadly, the snow has melted, and we are getting a glimpse of the spring weather that is to come (hopefully very soon)!

It is definitely warm enough to wear a heavy sweater and no jacket or a lighter sweater with layers.
I love the warm weather and I can’t wait until I can wear spring dresses and bright colored shorts!

But with spring time comes spring fever.
I don’t have time for spring fever just yet!
It is only my first full week of classes and unfortunately, I am already drowning in work.

Wish me luck!

J Crew purple wool teddy sweater

Gray fur vest

American Eagle dark wash straight jeans

Tory Burch black Reva ballet flats

Tory Burch gold logo bangle

Van Cleef & Arpels vintage Alhambra pendant

Tiffany pearl studs

Not so Much of a Bubble

I have always joked that Wake Forest is a bubble.

We have two gates on the edges of campus with WFU security guards that lock the gates at 10pm.

You can only get on campus in a car with a Wake Forest ID after 10.

It is also a bubble in the non-literal sense because it is private university with many affluent students.

Wake reminds me of me a lot of my hometown in the sense of security, safety and type of people I go to class with.

With that being said, I have always felt safe.

Occasionally freshman year when I was walking home from the library at 2 in the morning by myself I would feel a bit uneasy, but I knew that I was okay, and I did have the blue light system all around me as I walked home.

I have never felt unsafe until this past weekend.

At one in the morning on Saturday there was a shooting on campus.

There was an intercultural fraternity having a party in the barn on the edge of campus with college students from Wake and Winston-Salem State University.

At one am we got a text alert from school saying that there was an armed gunman on campus and that campus was in lockdown.

That was the scariest text I have ever received.

I was off campus at the time and was told to stay inside and away from campus until it was safe to do so.

During the hour or so I was not allowed to return to campus, the Winston-Salem State student that was shot passed away at the hospital where he was transported after the shooting.

We returned to campus in a bit of a frenzy and disbelief that an armed person had entered our beautiful bubble and disrupted our sanctuary.

We kept receiving alerts saying that the investigation was ongoing and that the shooter had not been found.

I didn’t sleep well that night because I was scared, rightfully so.

I still haven’t been able to sleep well even though the shooting was days ago.

I remember Sandy Hook very clearly as many other horrible acts of terror that have happened over the years. They have all definitely taken its toll on how safe I feel as an individual as well as a member of society.

Acts of terrorism are very scary events and always affected me really deeply. I think part of it has to do with being from New York and hearing about 9/11 ever since I was a little girl.

It is very unsettling that the shooter has not been found, or if he/she has been found we have not been told.

It is very upsetting that my safe, happy and perfect world at Wake was disrupted by a person with the intention of killing.

I know my blog is usually a very happy and positive place to share stories with you about my life, and I’m sad that this is not such a happy story.

I’m sorry if you know me personally and this is how you are hearing about this incident, but I only didn’t tell you to keep you from worrying.

To all the bad publicity this is having on Wake and for all the applicants of Wake, please don’t let this incident change your decision to go to this amazing school!

I know this is a scary incident but unfortunately this seems to be happening just about everywhere these days.

I looked into the safety of the campuses that I applied to and Wake is definitely one of the safest.

We have our own police department on campus, and I know that doesn’t mean much considering we have a crime scene on campus at the moment, but unfortunately there was a fluke in the system and someone lost their life.

I am under the understanding that the WFU Campus police are increasing their patrols and improving our campus security so there are no more incidents like these.

My prayers go out to the family of the boy who died and to everyone at Wake and in the community that has been affected by this horrible crime.

H&M navy blue sweater

American Eagle green jeggings

Tory Burch cheetah Reva flats

J Crew gold tassel earrings (similar)

Baublebar large gold script monogram